Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.
Question:
Why are there more women chasing men for their money than men chasing women? I see this a lot with some of the people I know. I have two cousin’s in the NFL and women are always around them for their money. And its easy to see right through them. And then I have a few friends who play pro soccer and its the same thing with them.
The women I know who have money its not the same. They don’t have men throwing themselves at them and laughing at every not funny joke just to get a reaction. But more women do this to men than the other way around. And its sad because some of the men don’t even notice it half the time its happening.
My answer:
Well, this is definitely not a surprise. First of all, successful and wealthy women are definitely a new thing. Up until a few decades ago, you didn’t have too many wealthy and successful women. Today, there are many of them.
About the women chasing men for the money, it’s really sad, but it’s nothing new. Most women are going through life wanting to find a man that will support them so they don’t have to work or get an education. That’s why rich men have women around them. In most cases, the women are not even attracted to the guy, and that’s the exact reason why they would use him without much guilt about it.
Now, women which are rich are kind of scary to men. Most men are insecure and they are seeking a woman which has less money, intelligence, and capability then themselves. Even today when male-female dynamics have gotten much more liberal, men still fear intelligent and powerful women. Actually, wealthy women have less men lined up for them than average women. Average women are seen as less threatening to their ego.
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They were raised to have poor self esteem, no self respecting woman would do that. It’s pathetic!!
It’s because men used to have the jobs and women said at home. It’s probably passed down. It’s the whole men are dominate thing.
So women back in the day would marry a man for money a lot of times, because woman couldn’t get jobs and they had to pay for the children. So women now look for a dominate male to pay for them and their selfish needs.
Well either that or men like pretty women and would let them use them for money just to bang them. I’m not that sure.
Women want to have babies and they want to have babies with someone who can provide for those babies. Plus, they have a man that can buy them things and take them places.
Men don’t want to be owned by a rich woman because they know she can find somebody else just like that. They will wonder why does this rich woman need me. So they would just as soon find a woman that needs them.
Lol what can you expect?
There’s a word called “Women” in your sentence of question.
Women like shiny things.
Men want fertile and healthy women – so they pursue physically attractive, youthful women.
Women want resources for their offsping – so they take into account financial stability and resources of men.
thats just how it beeez
Believe me. When it comes to money – men are paying attention! They just pretend that they don’t. It is the same thing as any woman saying the words “child support” to a guy. The smart ones keep their johnson tucked away. If the strumpets wanna hang out with the NFL and Pro Soccer players, the guys won’t stop them from paying them attention. However, just watch their face if one of the ‘bit o’fluffs’ tries to “snag a shag”. It ain’t pretty.
Actually, in reality, men make far much more money than women, even in today’s world. Most women with money either inherit it or work 18 hrs a day from the time they are old enough to wear high heeled shoes and have a “working” bank account!
Not all women are like that. Just like some guy’s are “hustlers” and “scam artist’s” some women are “gold diggers”.
But mostly it has to do with the whole disney princess fantasy kind of garbage and how society still to a certain degree gives women the expectation of finding Mr.Right to “take care of them”.
I know men here that home in on divorced women and say they love them to money grab. Usually they are foriegners who say that they love them to move here and steal their money. I know someone its blatantly going to happen to but they wont listen to sense. The men come here pretend they care and are raking it in.
Women are seeking status and comfort. Easy.
Because women are social accessories who want to trade sex for social gain.
Hmm I do know one guy who said his ambition was to marry a rich girl and then he did. (Her second marriage, too.) So I think it does happen sometimes.
Also the guys you mention are sports players, they have girls after them for other reasons not just money, whereas the rich girls you know probably aren’t rich due to sport. I think it depends how they earn the money and how ostentatious they are.
Harriet
Women chase after men’s money and men chase after women’s beauty. We’re all horrible people.
They’re gold diggers.
that’s the way it’s always been
Do the women you know have equivalent amounts of money as the men you describe? Those pro-sports players are probably earning hundred’s of thousands of dollars a year. What are the women earning?
If these women with money are hideous, men probably won’t pay much attention to them regardless of their income. Men tend to value looks more than women do.
because,
why to work?
when so many women continue thinking (and doing) that they can catch the next “street car/meal-ticket” with his pockets full,before he gets…in the way home to his wife.
A woman’s success will never please a man even though they feel entitled to shit because of their hard work. Men want to feel like the bread winners.
A man’s chasing his dreams as an artist or small business starter won’t please a woman cuz she doesn’t give a shit about your dreams, unless it makes money.
Women want babies and homes. That shit cost a looooot of money in America. Especially in the cities.
WOMEN WANT SECURITY.
MEN WANT SEX.
BOTTOM LINE.
IF A SUCCESSFUL WOMAN WANT A MAN AS SUCCESSFUL OR HIGHER.
TAKE CARE OF HER. SECURITY.
NO MATTER HOW SUCCESSFUL A WOMAN IS, IF SHE AIN’T PRETTY
HE DOESN’T WANT TO FUCK HER. SEX.
As far as my experience has proven, females want two things, babies AND easy money.
Regardless of whether he is wealthy or otherwise (however, being wealthy gives her more options as to how she may bludgeoff him… hey!) these two things are paramont.
A female is basically a bludger, it is myth that females have not been able to go out and work, look up your history books guys, this is just another suck in so she can bludge off you some more.
Even if she has her own money and career, she will still, for the most part, expect to spend your money, and keep her own for herself.
My father (bless his heart and soul) said to me as a teenager, there are 4 K’s where women are concerned ( he pointed out that they are not stricktly K’s) but none the less the message has done it’s job, it has stuck in my mind, all my life, and has proven accurate time and again, the 4 K’s are,1) a mans cock,2)his cum,3) kids, and4) his cash, pure, simple and very very true.
He also stressed to me no matter what excusses a female may give you, and as to the extreme she will go to try to convince you that she is after anything BUT the affore mentioned, don’t get sucked into it, you will live to regret it, don’t get sucked into the “she loves you” line, she loves not you, but what she can get from you for nothing !
Wealthy females are still, just that, only females, nothing more nor less, they don’t do any of the hard dirty work, in short, a man can do a females job, BUT a female cannot do a mans (how many females do you see doing the really hard work?, minning, heavy construction etc.etc!).
I don’t find wealthy or successful females threatening or intimadating to my so-called ego at all, as a matter of fact, I would gladly fleece a wealthy female, no guilt at all, why shouldn’t us guys have a go?, the females have been fleecing us guys for centuries, it’s about time we got some equal rights too.
In short, females need men successful and wealthy or otherwise, without us, they can’t satisfy thier most basic greed to breed, and bludge, in a cave, along side a nice comfy fire a man built!
To all, have a nice day.