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ld, inciting jealousy etcetera. I am curious. Trend observation in general…
This is killing some real potential…
My quick answer to this question:
Well, if you had taken my quiz, you wouldn’t even be asking this, lol… I have some news-flash for you… Meeting women is HARD. In fact, men live in a constant state of rejection and embarrassment. Men who are naturally charismatic and charming are exceptionally rare, and being lonely kinda sucks… Most women (yourself included most likely) have never experienced what its like to romantically lonesome, since you have dating pretty much handed to you. All you have to do is say yes to the guys you like.
Now, the game-based approaches to meeting women I do not like, as I have gone through that phase myself… But they are like many people said, made to level the playing field. The average guy is like levels and levels below the average woman when it comes to dating, and to him it feels frustrating.
Now… me personally I teach guys how to BECOME naturally charismatic and charming, so they don’t have to play games, but most guys never have the fortune of reaching this level, so they have to resort to game-playing and have women pursuing THEM… And really if YOU Reading this are a guy, this site exists for you, and I want you to apply this stuff. You don’t need the games, they take more time and are less effective.
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You have to remember that the Mystery Method is primarily centered around attracting 10′s (supermodel-hot women). When he talks about negs and such, you have to keep that in mind. Alot of these techniques, the way he presents them, do not necessarily apply to 6′s, 7′s, and 8′s. (Mystery’s rating system starts at 6)
My point is that 10′s are notoriously hard to get, and they make an art of mind games themselves. So why not give men a chance to play the game? All those lonesome guys you see everywhere, no-one ever explained how attraction works to them, and so they spend their frustrated lives getting shot down all the time. Its not that they’re bad people, or stupid, or have no personalities, they just don’t know how to convey their best and really, be their best.
Now don’t get me wrong, these 10′s have a perfectly good reason for playing their games. If they couldn’t test a man’s value in seconds or learn how to end an interaction with an interested guy, they’d spend their entire days having boring conversations with guys they aren’t interested in.
So, you see, it depends on your perspective. You can look at it as manipulation or being deceitful, or you can look at it as leveling the playing field a bit.
I’d like to know what you mean by “killing some real potential” though.
they are idiots who dont know any other way, and are not naturally likeable like myself
I wouldn’t call it mind games. You see, there are a lot of males out there who think Looks is the only thing that matters to women so PUAs like Mystery and others share how they get girls (mystery method) to make those low confidence guys realize that looks don’t matter and they teach them what women want and how to be the guy women wish for.
Because women are trapped easily they know only way to catch a woman is mind game 90% guys who say in dates they never prove them after getting along. At least by your question girls whoever read this must avoid to be trapped.
i really don’t view it as games. i view the game as an insult. if i sense the male is playing(which usually doesn’t take me very long) that just tells me your not interested in me and i move on before it snowballs. i view these people as having low self esteem and are insulting you in a silent way. my boyfriend said that’s why alot of relationships never take off. alot of women(not all women) deal with the nonsense and say “let him do what he wants” … that’s not going to get him either..he will continue to walk all over you emotionally. what you have to do is when you sense a game give him some sort of energy saying “cut the game”. he may come back or he may not. if not that means there was no interest. i agree with some comments these types do need help with their playing problem, and are very depressed people. remember its not your problem its them. these depressed people are not chasing you for a relationship or be great friends with benefits(LOL)..they are playing you. walk away and don’t get involved there are too many men and women who really want relationships.
if she plays me..she’s out. i’ve got a great girlfriend who’s great to me..why play a burger..when i have a beautiful delicious steak at home…
and i didn’t have to play my beautiful delicious steak either! i love you babe, see you around 6:30pm.
To Jesus:
There is no trap, if you’ve fallen into this depressed persons game..then its your fault.
omar? its not mystery its depression by each party. it has nothing to do with a 10. its trying to see how far you can go and play with that man or woman until the player has pushed them away. omar, don’t fall into that mess.
its very low self esteem….they need to figure out why they are doing this and stop it.
if you want someone just go right up to him or her and starting talking. do you know how many relationships never take off because of playing?
players also do not have a personality and do not know how to speak the person they are playing. they blurt out like stupid stuff….when they are playing they don’t want to reveal any information about themselves. so to me that says, wife, live in or full of crap. you give them their send off and move on to another guy. you give him some time and then move on…also most players have personal baggage and loaded with problems..not all but most.